Kuki abakobwa batagukunda?

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urashaka kumenya impamvu? Ngizi aha hasi:

1. Ugira amagambo menshi nakajagari: abakobwa benshi ntibakunda umusore igira amagambo adashira ndetse bikaba bibi cyane iyo uhora ujagaraye mubintu byinshi, rimwe narimwe utanubaha abo ari kumwe nabo cg utamenya aho ageze nigihe agezemo ahubwo ni ukwirwa avuga, baramwanga cyane. Nibyo bakunda abasore basetsa ariko ibintu mugihe cyabyo!

2. Ubaho mubuzima udatekerezaho: iyo umukobwa adashobora kukubona ukora ibintu wipangiye wowe ubwawe cyangwa ngo abone ko ushobora gupanga ubuzima bwawe bukaba bwiza ubwo yagukunda ate? Nta mukobwa ujya gukunda ngo akunde umusore udatekereza kubuzima abayemo ngo amenye nuko yabwitwaramo.

3. Kugerageza gutakagiza ibice byumubiri we: hari abakobwa babikunda ariko jya ugerageza kugira amakenga nkumuntu ugiye kubwira ko afite ikibono cyiza, amaguru meza, amatako meza nibindi kuko abakobwa benshi bitewe nuburyo ubimubwiyemo bitamuhesha agaciro bigatuma ntamukobwa ugukunda. Nujya ujya gutera umutoma umukobwa jya ubanza umenye ibyo akunda ko bamutaka ntugapfe guhubuka cyane cyane binatewe naho muri, ibihe murimo ndetse nabo muri kumwe. Aho gutera imitoma umukobwa ugendeye kuko agaragara wabireka kuko bimwereka ko ushaka kumushora mu irari ryawe ryumubiri ahubwo ukagendera kumuco ye cg ibitekerezo nimyitwarire ye wenda nibyo byamuhesha agaciro kuko byo ntibipfa kuvaho cg ngo bishire.

4. Kwitaka cyane: ntimunyumve nabi kwigirira icyizere ni ibintu byiza cyane ariko hari ukuntu uganira numukobwa ugakomeza wivuga ibigwi nkaho uri kumusaba akazi nabyo ni ibintu bituma abakobwa batagukunda ahubwa bakajya baganira bavuga ko wiyemera cyane.

5. Uhora usa nabi: uko ugaragara nabyo biri mubintu bikurura abakobwa cyane nkuko twabivuze mu biganiro bhyabanje kuri iyi paji, iyo ugaragara nku munyamwanda nabyo ni ibintu bituma abakobwa batagukunda rwose. Gerageza kwiyitaho, wisige amavuta meza nimibavu niba ubifitiye ubushobozi kandi niba ubushobozi ntabwo gerageza wiyiteho mubushobozi ufite. Ukore ka siporo, woge umubiri wawe, uruhuke neza hanyuma ubuzima nibumera neza abakobwa bazagukunda ndetse cyane.

6. Urafuha bikabije: akenshi iyo ufite bimwe muri ibyo bibazo byo hejuru bikunze gutuma ufuha kuko uba wumva umukobwa muhuye ashobora kuba ahura nabandi bafite ibyo udafite bikanatuma ufuhira numuntu mutaranakundana. Gufuha si ikibazo ahubwo ikibazo ni uguhoza kunkeke umukobwa wabandi mutaranakundana cg mumaranye nigihe gito wirwa umubaza abo yahuye nabo, ibyo bakoraga impamvu batabikoreye ahantu runaka nibindi bibazo bituma abona ko atanabasha kumwizera bigatuma buri mukobwa muhuye ntanumwe ukugirira ikizere. Iyi paji ME Adviser ikugezaho ibiganiro byubaka urukundo iyo wakoze follow cg like kuri paji buri kiganiro dushizeho buri munsi ntikigucika, sangiza incuti zawe iyi post, unatange igitekerezo unyuze kuri whatsapp +250784024099 wananyura muri comment cg mugikari hose turahagera tugasoma ibitekerezo byanyu knd ni ingenzi cyane kuri twe. Njye ubategurira izi nyandiko nitwa Etienne mukomeze kugira ibihe byiza!

Kuki abakobwa batagukunda?

________________________

urashaka kumenya impamvu? Ngizi aha hasi:

1. Ugira amagambo menshi nakajagari: abakobwa benshi ntibakunda umusore igira amagambo adashira ndetse bikaba bibi cyane iyo uhora ujagaraye mubintu byinshi, rimwe narimwe utanubaha abo ari kumwe nabo cg utamenya aho ageze nigihe agezemo ahubwo ni ukwirwa avuga, baramwanga cyane. Nibyo bakunda abasore basetsa ariko ibintu mugihe cyabyo!

2. Ubaho mubuzima udatekerezaho: iyo umukobwa adashobora kukubona ukora ibintu wipangiye wowe ubwawe cyangwa ngo abone ko ushobora gupanga ubuzima bwawe bukaba bwiza ubwo yagukunda ate? Nta mukobwa ujya gukunda ngo akunde umusore udatekereza kubuzima abayemo ngo amenye nuko yabwitwaramo.

3. Kugerageza gutakagiza ibice byumubiri we: hari abakobwa babikunda ariko jya ugerageza kugira amakenga nkumuntu ugiye kubwira ko afite ikibono cyiza, amaguru meza, amatako meza nibindi kuko abakobwa benshi bitewe nuburyo ubimubwiyemo bitamuhesha agaciro bigatuma ntamukobwa ugukunda. Nujya ujya gutera umutoma umukobwa jya ubanza umenye ibyo akunda ko bamutaka ntugapfe guhubuka cyane cyane binatewe naho muri, ibihe murimo ndetse nabo muri kumwe. Aho gutera imitoma umukobwa ugendeye kuko agaragara wabireka kuko bimwereka ko ushaka kumushora mu irari ryawe ryumubiri ahubwo ukagendera kumuco ye cg ibitekerezo nimyitwarire ye wenda nibyo byamuhesha agaciro kuko byo ntibipfa kuvaho cg ngo bishire.

4. Kwitaka cyane: ntimunyumve nabi kwigirira icyizere ni ibintu byiza cyane ariko hari ukuntu uganira numukobwa ugakomeza wivuga ibigwi nkaho uri kumusaba akazi nabyo ni ibintu bituma abakobwa batagukunda ahubwa bakajya baganira bavuga ko wiyemera cyane.

5. Uhora usa nabi: uko ugaragara nabyo biri mubintu bikurura abakobwa cyane nkuko twabivuze mu biganiro bhyabanje kuri iyi paji, iyo ugaragara nku munyamwanda nabyo ni ibintu bituma abakobwa batagukunda rwose. Gerageza kwiyitaho, wisige amavuta meza nimibavu niba ubifitiye ubushobozi kandi niba ubushobozi ntabwo gerageza wiyiteho mubushobozi ufite. Ukore ka siporo, woge umubiri wawe, uruhuke neza hanyuma ubuzima nibumera neza abakobwa bazagukunda ndetse cyane.

6. Urafuha bikabije: akenshi iyo ufite bimwe muri ibyo bibazo byo hejuru bikunze gutuma ufuha kuko uba wumva umukobwa muhuye ashobora kuba ahura nabandi bafite ibyo udafite bikanatuma ufuhira numuntu mutaranakundana. Gufuha si ikibazo ahubwo ikibazo ni uguhoza kunkeke umukobwa wabandi mutaranakundana cg mumaranye nigihe gito wirwa umubaza abo yahuye nabo, ibyo bakoraga impamvu batabikoreye ahantu runaka nibindi bibazo bituma abona ko atanabasha kumwizera bigatuma buri mukobwa muhuye ntanumwe ukugirira ikizere. Iyi paji ME Adviser ikugezaho ibiganiro byubaka urukundo iyo wakoze follow cg like kuri paji buri kiganiro dushizeho buri munsi ntikigucika, sangiza incuti zawe iyi post, unatange igitekerezo unyuze kuri whatsapp +250784024099 wananyura muri comment cg mugikari hose turahagera tugasoma ibitekerezo byanyu knd ni ingenzi cyane kuri twe. Njye ubategurira izi nyandiko nitwa Etienne mukomeze kugira ibihe byiza!