BEING A SIDE CHICK IS A WASTE OF TIME
He will spend hours with you and still go back to his wife. He will give you a hundred orgasms and tell you to take emergency pills. If you dare get pregnant he will tell you to abort. He will ask you to be faithful to him, when he has someone else.
While you are in the background, he will post photos of his beautiful family, talk highly of his wife and talk about how he loves his children. You are left to wonder about this love he talks about. If he really loves you, why does he make you do all those things to your body and still put you behind the scenes?
How can you even be comfortable being in a relationship that requires you to hide whenever you are with him? You have to keep quiet and listen to him talk to his wife while you lie on his chest.
How do you feel when you call him and he disconnects the line...only to send a text saying. .."Am with my wife, call you later"? Does he really value you? Does he respect you? Does he love you? The answer to these questions is NO!!
He is just using you, when he gets tired of you, he will throw you away. To him you are just another girl. Wake up my sister and break the curse of being a side chick. You deserve better... Kingsley Cladvine Bassey,